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In March 2006, Abel, an adult who happens to have a developmental disability, left his family and friends to move into Catholic Charities, Department for Persons with Disabilites Murray House.
Abel had lived at home with his family for his entire life.“When I moved in, everything was different for me. People didn’t always speak my language, the food didn’t taste like my mom’s, there were new housemates to get to know, not to mention a barrage of staff coming and going at all hours of the day and night. I had a strange new room, a new bed, and new responsibilities that I wasn’t used to. I was taken in a strange vehicle to a new job everyday and I felt as though my world had been turned upside down.”
Now, 13 years later, things couldn’t be more different. Strangers have become friends, the house has become Abel’s home, and the staff have become like family.
“I have found my place at Catholic Charites, Department for Persons with Disabilities. I love my job. I love my room and my large window that overlooks the park. I like to keep an eye on my favorite vehicle—a red van that is parked in the driveway. I love to dress up in a suit and tie and go out on the town. If the red van is going out, I want to be on it.”
Although Abel cannot speak, his eyes express his gratitude. “My eyes say thank you to the staff who walked with me through those difficult days at the start and who believed in me and supported me. I have learned to trust others, to live in community, to be a friend, and to enjoy my life. I have learned that it is possible to start over in a new place, and make it my home—a place where I am safe, happy, understood and loved.”